I just don't get where you guys are coming from. I'm a single, never-married over-40 guy who: -thinks Sex & the City is easily one of the best TV shows of the last 20 years. -thinks neither good nor bad about Oprah. -loves to talk and has no problem doing so. -has plenty of female friends. -has a fair amount of dates. What's all this hand-wriging about? There are all sorts out there. It takes a while to find someone compatible, that's for sure. But it's far more likely now than 50 years ago. And all this complaining about a lack of "virtuous women"....huh? Send them my way if you've got a problem with them. Yeesh!Thoughts?