19 September, 2006

I need a self-esteem boost...

ENFJ- The Teacher

You scored 63% I to E, 47% N to S, 47% F to T, and 36% J to P!

Your type is known as the teacher, or the educating mentor. You also belong to the larger group called idealists. You tend to bring out the best in other people. You lead without seeming to do so. People are naturally drawn to you. You expect the very best from people which takes the form of enthusiastic encouragement which is so charming that people try their best not to disappoint you. You share your personality type with 3% of the population.

You need to feel a deep and meaningful connection to your romantic partners, and go to great lengths to understand and please your mate. Harmony is vitally important to you, and you often put others' needs before your own. You have a pretty thin skin and are easily hurt. Although you strive for harmony, when your values or ethics are violated, you can be very emotional, confrontational, and even punishing. However, you are very insightful about the underlying cause of conflicts, and an excellent communicator, so you have the tools to bring about a quick and peaceful resolution as long as you can keep control of your facilities. You want to be appreciated for your thoughtfulness and compassion. You need your partner to make a real effort to get to know you. Above all, you need to be able to express your feelings and have them taken seriously.

Your group summary: idealists (NF)

Your type summary: ENFJ
Link: The LONG Scientific Personality Test written by unpretentious2 on OkCupid Free Online Dating, home of the 32-Type Dating Test
I'm not sure how correct this personality sketch is, as I'm obviously split between N/S and T/F. But the part about harmony and conflict (including assisting resolution "as long as you can keep control of your facilities" is so true. That's why I tend to avoid political discussions these days--I don't trust my self-control when I am truly riled about something that matters). At least they mentioned only the good parts--hence the self-esteem boost.


You Are Girly Sexy

You're a youthful spirit, and your energy is infectious.

Men love your innocence and lack of emotional baggage.

You make every kiss seem like the first and every moment magical.

How could any guy in his right mind resist that?

Who knows if it's right or not, but I sure hope it is... *GRIN*